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		<title>By: Brian</title>
		<link>http://inrepair.net/2007/12/05/to-lie-or-not-to-lie/#comment-26486</link>
		<dc:creator>Brian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Dec 2007 13:08:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Sunny: Thanks!

@ Mario: As Jamie stated in the post that he linked to above, HIV rates are also very high among blacks. How do you think banning a race of people from donating blood would go over? Not well, I'd say.

All gay people are not putting themselves at risk of contracting HIV, yet all of us are being lumped into one category. I believe people should be screened for risky behavior, not sexuality.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Sunny: Thanks!</p>
<p>@ Mario: As Jamie stated in the post that he linked to above, HIV rates are also very high among blacks. How do you think banning a race of people from donating blood would go over? Not well, I&#8217;d say.</p>
<p>All gay people are not putting themselves at risk of contracting HIV, yet all of us are being lumped into one category. I believe people should be screened for risky behavior, not sexuality.</p>
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		<title>By: mario</title>
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		<dc:creator>mario</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Dec 2007 06:25:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It's very easy to perceive this as homophobia/discrimination/whatever.

But, as recently as 2005, HALF the US HIV transmissions were still among gay men.  HALF.  Check out the CDC reports.  I did the last time this issue came up in another blog I follow.  See http://www.avert.org/usastatg.htm

Until the gay community, of which I am one, cleans up their act, there is a very justifiable reason for this "discrimination".  And, sad to say, risky behavior is on the RISE.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s very easy to perceive this as homophobia/discrimination/whatever.</p>
<p>But, as recently as 2005, HALF the US HIV transmissions were still among gay men.  HALF.  Check out the CDC reports.  I did the last time this issue came up in another blog I follow.  See <a href="http://www.avert.org/usastatg.htm" rel="nofollow">http://www.avert.org/usastatg.htm</a></p>
<p>Until the gay community, of which I am one, cleans up their act, there is a very justifiable reason for this &#8220;discrimination&#8221;.  And, sad to say, risky behavior is on the RISE.</p>
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		<title>By: Sunny</title>
		<link>http://inrepair.net/2007/12/05/to-lie-or-not-to-lie/#comment-26468</link>
		<dc:creator>Sunny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Dec 2007 04:46:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi...nice site :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi&#8230;nice site <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Brian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2007 22:47:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Alyson: :lol:

@ Eco Warrior: That's a good idea and I'm sure they'd take notice pretty quickly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Alyson: <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_lol.gif' alt=':lol:' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@ Eco Warrior: That&#8217;s a good idea and I&#8217;m sure they&#8217;d take notice pretty quickly.</p>
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		<title>By: Eco Warrior</title>
		<link>http://inrepair.net/2007/12/05/to-lie-or-not-to-lie/#comment-26377</link>
		<dc:creator>Eco Warrior</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2007 21:14:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My friends and I have been discussing this topic for some time now. We feel that if Universities (who host blood drives) boycotted the Red Cross in the name of changing that policy, they may take notice. 
Cudos.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My friends and I have been discussing this topic for some time now. We feel that if Universities (who host blood drives) boycotted the Red Cross in the name of changing that policy, they may take notice.<br />
Cudos.</p>
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		<title>By: alyson</title>
		<link>http://inrepair.net/2007/12/05/to-lie-or-not-to-lie/#comment-26376</link>
		<dc:creator>alyson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2007 20:24:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>They should've known with me being all postpartum, I'd be the mad cow in the family.  LOL.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>They should&#8217;ve known with me being all postpartum, I&#8217;d be the mad cow in the family.  LOL.</p>
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		<title>By: Brian</title>
		<link>http://inrepair.net/2007/12/05/to-lie-or-not-to-lie/#comment-26371</link>
		<dc:creator>Brian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2007 19:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Jamie: Great article! This thing pisses me off, too.

@ Mitsu: I agree. I don't think I'd be picky about who the organ was coming from if I was on one of those transplant lists, as long as it had been thoroughly tested.

@ Alyson: If that woman was that angry, you should be thankful that she didn't come at you with a needle! And Mad Cow? OMG!

@ Ashley: That's interesting about the tattoos and piercings. I don't have a problem with the personal questions, as they are an important part of the screening process, but I do have a big problem with banning an entire group of people.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Jamie: Great article! This thing pisses me off, too.</p>
<p>@ Mitsu: I agree. I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;d be picky about who the organ was coming from if I was on one of those transplant lists, as long as it had been thoroughly tested.</p>
<p>@ Alyson: If that woman was that angry, you should be thankful that she didn&#8217;t come at you with a needle! And Mad Cow? OMG!</p>
<p>@ Ashley: That&#8217;s interesting about the tattoos and piercings. I don&#8217;t have a problem with the personal questions, as they are an important part of the screening process, but I do have a big problem with banning an entire group of people.</p>
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		<title>By: Ashley</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ashley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2007 18:04:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I donated a couple years ago and they had an electronic questionnaire thingy that asks all kinds of &lt;em&gt;very&lt;/em&gt; personal questions. I passed out right after donating and they said that I had a seizure, but I don't think that I did...I was only out for a few seconds (I didn't even spill the sierra mist they gave me to drink). But because of that, I'm barred from donating again. That's just at Lifeblood, though. I think I'd still be able to donate to Red Cross or some other organization...I've been thinking about it lately, since it's been almost 2 years since I got a tattoo (you have to wait 1 year for tattoos and 6 months for any piercings). 

I agree though, the rules they have do seem rather outdated, especially since they run those tests anyway. Like Brian said, hopefully the more sensitive test will become standard procedure now that something bad has happened.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I donated a couple years ago and they had an electronic questionnaire thingy that asks all kinds of <em>very</em> personal questions. I passed out right after donating and they said that I had a seizure, but I don&#8217;t think that I did&#8230;I was only out for a few seconds (I didn&#8217;t even spill the sierra mist they gave me to drink). But because of that, I&#8217;m barred from donating again. That&#8217;s just at Lifeblood, though. I think I&#8217;d still be able to donate to Red Cross or some other organization&#8230;I&#8217;ve been thinking about it lately, since it&#8217;s been almost 2 years since I got a tattoo (you have to wait 1 year for tattoos and 6 months for any piercings). </p>
<p>I agree though, the rules they have do seem rather outdated, especially since they run those tests anyway. Like Brian said, hopefully the more sensitive test will become standard procedure now that something bad has happened.</p>
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		<title>By: alyson</title>
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		<dc:creator>alyson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2007 14:38:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The rules regarding blood donation makes it easy to see why there is always a shortage.  

I have had one experience trying to donate, and it wasn't good.  The bloodmobile was at my church, and we were encouraged to go and attempt to donate, even if we knew we couldn't give, because it would look good if alot of people made the effort.  My son was a few weeks old at the time.  We went to the church and there was no line, so I signed in, completely ignoring the hundred page 3 ring binder of information that was on the table.  I went up to one of the ladies and sat down.  She asked how old my baby was, and I told her.  She said, rather smartly, "you can't donate that close to giving birth, IF you would've read the information on the table, you would've known that".  

Her attitude completely turned me off of attempting to donate blood.  She wasn't busy, so there was no need for her to be so hateful.  Even though that was 5 years ago, I haven't tried to donate since.  

BTW, my husband can't donate either because he spent time in Europe 20 years ago, which puts him at risk for being a carrier of mad cow disease.  LOL.  I'm being serious, you can't make this stuff up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The rules regarding blood donation makes it easy to see why there is always a shortage.  </p>
<p>I have had one experience trying to donate, and it wasn&#8217;t good.  The bloodmobile was at my church, and we were encouraged to go and attempt to donate, even if we knew we couldn&#8217;t give, because it would look good if alot of people made the effort.  My son was a few weeks old at the time.  We went to the church and there was no line, so I signed in, completely ignoring the hundred page 3 ring binder of information that was on the table.  I went up to one of the ladies and sat down.  She asked how old my baby was, and I told her.  She said, rather smartly, &#8220;you can&#8217;t donate that close to giving birth, IF you would&#8217;ve read the information on the table, you would&#8217;ve known that&#8221;.  </p>
<p>Her attitude completely turned me off of attempting to donate blood.  She wasn&#8217;t busy, so there was no need for her to be so hateful.  Even though that was 5 years ago, I haven&#8217;t tried to donate since.  </p>
<p>BTW, my husband can&#8217;t donate either because he spent time in Europe 20 years ago, which puts him at risk for being a carrier of mad cow disease.  LOL.  I&#8217;m being serious, you can&#8217;t make this stuff up.</p>
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		<title>By: Mitsu</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mitsu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2007 14:32:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What the hell? This has got to be the stupidest law ever. I mean, they're saying that all gay people carry disease. I can't believe that a "civilized" country still thinks this way. If I ever needed blood/organs/etc., I'd much rather get it from a monogamous gay man than from a promiscuous straight man/woman. It's just the common risk factor there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What the hell? This has got to be the stupidest law ever. I mean, they&#8217;re saying that all gay people carry disease. I can&#8217;t believe that a &#8220;civilized&#8221; country still thinks this way. If I ever needed blood/organs/etc., I&#8217;d much rather get it from a monogamous gay man than from a promiscuous straight man/woman. It&#8217;s just the common risk factor there.</p>
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